I know how hard it is to not let the past affect your present and your future, but I've come to realize that I came here alone and going out alone and I need to finish what I started, regardless! Life is too short to let myself be affected or controlled by people, money, or past experiences!
These are very wise words coming from a man who has become very successful financially. All the money in the world and all the 'goals' you may achieve do not necessarily make you feel fulfilled emotionally and spiritually. Know what that is first and you'll be able to live through whatever live brings you.